Apr 19 2010
How to manage long distance relationship
Managing a long distance is indeed very fragile and often when not properly taken good care of it will disintegrate especially. Proper care must be given prior importance for if not a break up is imminent. Moreover, only few long distance lasts since we are only human being that yearns for personal touch every time and when this is present the magic both parties felt for each other might died out. The yearning for loved one is indeed very difficult to bear, and this could even lead to a guy of accidentally having some sexual relationships with other woman, just to get rid of loneliness.
Here are some ways to manage a long distance relationship.
1. Build trust on each other; with out this your relationship will inevitably vanish in thin air. How to build trust; show your love at all cost (literally often). You need to call her most of the time and if you think this is expensive why not settle for something economical that is relaying your message through text messaging after all, thought counts, and true love will always find ways to understand.
2. Most of the time both of parties will engage in a misunderstanding and conflict, and you will do when you are in an argument. The best things do while on a heated discussion is to avoid while you can, and when you can’t help it and already lured onto it is just lose the battle and bow graciously. It is better to lose in an argument with someone you love than to lose his or her heart or worst will lead to break up. Remember that in a debate most of the time the two that slug it out in the tongue-lashing spree feel like they won the battle at the end of the day.
3. Stay away from getting along with other individuals especially when there is no formal break up yet. Be honest, remember that the land you step in has ears and you don’t know who is around you all the time. When you are dating with somebody else and someone you know saw the two of you, I think are in big trouble.
4. Reminisce the good old time when yearning sets in, stay loyal all the time and make the distance that sets you apart as a motivation, and that you will see each other real soon, but both of you must work hard for it.
5. Give gifts to one another that will bring back the good old memories.
6. Make him or her special on special dates like monthsary, birthdays and among other dates.
7. For guys make sure you send flowers and chocolates as often as you can especially in times of conflict, for these are the weaknesses of human. You may use this potent weapon to make her feel important or as a peace offering when there is misunderstanding.
Good luck I hope this advice will shore up any hassles on your long distance relationship.




