Apr 19 2010

How to manage long distance relationship

Category: Relationshipsadmin @ 5:44 am

Managing a long distance is indeed very fragile and often when not properly taken good care of it will disintegrate especially. Proper care must be given prior importance for if not a break up is imminent. Moreover, only few long distance lasts since we are only human being that yearns for personal touch every time and when this is present the magic both parties felt for each other might died out. The yearning for loved one is indeed very difficult to bear, and this could even lead to a guy of accidentally having some sexual relationships with other woman, just to get rid of loneliness.

Here are some ways to manage a long distance relationship.

1. Build trust on each other; with out this your relationship will inevitably vanish in thin air. How to build trust; show your love at all cost (literally often). You need to call her most of the time and if you think this is expensive why not settle for something economical that is relaying your message through text messaging after all, thought counts, and true love will always find ways to understand.

2. Most of the time both of parties will engage in a misunderstanding and conflict, and you will do when you are in an argument. The best things do while on a heated discussion is to avoid while you can, and when you can’t help it and already lured onto it is just lose the battle and bow graciously. It is better to lose in an argument with someone you love than to lose his or her heart or worst will lead to break up. Remember that in a debate most of the time the two that slug it out in the tongue-lashing spree feel like they won the battle at the end of the day.

3. Stay away from getting along with other individuals especially when there is no formal break up yet. Be honest, remember that the land you step in has ears and you don’t know who is around you all the time. When you are dating with somebody else and someone you know saw the two of you, I think are in big trouble.

4. Reminisce the good old time when yearning sets in, stay loyal all the time and make the distance that sets you apart as a motivation, and that you will see each other real soon, but both of you must work hard for it.

5. Give gifts to one another that will bring back the good old memories.

6. Make him or her special on special dates like monthsary, birthdays and among other dates.

7. For guys make sure you send flowers and chocolates as often as you can especially in times of conflict, for these are the weaknesses of human. You may use this potent weapon to make her feel important or as a peace offering when there is misunderstanding.

Good luck I hope this advice will shore up any hassles on your long distance relationship.

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Apr 18 2010

The Risks of a Long Distance and Why Lovers Break Ups

Category: Relationshipsadmin @ 11:04 pm

It is almost inevitable for someone to get involved with a long distance, well, most the reasons can be attributed to seeking greener pastures in far away places, immigration to other countries, or for career advancement. Although some have a resounding success in long distance relationships primarily the trust is there, critical issues and misunderstandings are solved, bases are covered when warning signs comes and getting rid of obstacles that might cause the drifting apart of the lovers.

Although some work their way to success in long distance relationships some still fall prey to breakups and they end up in the losing end:


Here are some reasons why long distance relationships doesn’t work:
-Keeping long distance relationships can be expensive, since both are obliged to call on phone. Most of the time the discussion will take long minutes to few hours.
-It is risky because the lovers don’t monitor each other literally. No loyalty checks on both parties.
-It is easy for both parties to find new acquaintance and fall in love with another individual.
-The time zone and work of both parties can be detrimental to the relationship. For instance a guy is in US and the girl resides in the Philippines, the time for a phone call will surely be put in peril, especially if they are busy with their respective jobs.
-The yearning for being loved physically might entice one half of the lovers to seek for someone’s compassion, devotion, care and attention.
-The trust of each other might falter as time goes by.
-Both parties will not be able to discern impending warning signs of break up since they are far apart with each other.
-Both of the parties are on their own challenges that comes around could cripple one of them, and eventually give up.

Here are the risks and if you intend to keep your love in the air from keep on blossoming you must have all of these bases covered, otherwise you need to start taking out your handkerchief or a tissue and pour out all of those tears in you.

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Apr 16 2010

The Twilight Saga: Eclipse

Category: Uncategorizedadmin @ 10:35 am

Another much anticipated movie is set to be launched this coming June, as “The Twilight Saga: Eclipse (2010),” is cinched to give a scare and mysterious puzzle to the moviegoers. The plot of the story was well made and for sure the people that will watch will have their eyes glued to the big screen of movies worldwide.

Bella Swan is a mortal being and Edward is a vampire and an immortal, their odd and illicit relationships will again put to an acid test even as an evil empire is set to dish out her revenge. Things have gotten more complicated as she must choose between true love she has for Edwards and true friendship with Jacob, and the choosing work is not yet done with that for she has to choose of being a mortal or an immortal.

Danger lurks in all corners of Seattle as a malevolent vampire is on a killing spree. Additionally, choosing between the two guys will trigger a struggle between the vampires and werewolf. She must make a good choice from a dilemma since her graduation day is fast forthcoming. Eventually Bella chooses to be an immortal and time is ticking away. A bigger problem surfaces in thin air. Her feelings for both Jacob and Edward and Victoria who is responsible for the mass killings since Edward was the one that took life out of his partner James

The movie “The Twilight Saga: Eclipse (2010)’ is written by Mel from United Kingdom and directed by David Slade. Melissa Rosenberg (screenplay)
Stephenie Meyer (novel).
Release Date: June 30, 2010 in United States

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